Description of my experience growing up cishet male without accepting the patriarchal messaging and control. A mini autobiography if you will.
My negative opinion on make-up and the cosmetics industry
I realize that possible no one wants to know what my opinion is on this topic, being a cis-male heterosexual middle-aged white dude. I still want to write it down. Those that do not want to know my opinion don’t…
Guide on how to be a real man
This blog post is aimed at all the guys out there, from just another guy. Guys, I’ve got some bad news for you all; we’ve been given horrible wrong information and horrible bad advice regarding interacting with women and what…
Of self confidence, social programing and more
I’ve been thinking a lot about this thing we call self confidence and how there seems to be a big lack of it these days. I believe the root cause is in what I call social programing. Social programing are…
Vanity where does it come from???
I’ve been pondering lately about this thing called vanity that seems to be gripping the nation worse than ever. What is it, where does it come from, why do we care, etc. I get that one wants to look the…
The American Tourist and Mexican Fisherman by Heinrich Böll
An American tourist was at the pier of a small coastal Mexican village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside the small boat were several large yellowfin tuna. The tourist complimented the Mexican on the quality of…
